The Human Magnet
It's almost embarrassing to admit this out loud, but I believe in the Secret. The Secret was that book that came out several years ago...then I think they made some sort of movie, and it's simply reaffirming that if you want something bad enough, it will be yours. If you wish for a parking spot right in front...you'll get it.
If you want to own item or attract a person, you can achieve that goal. If you want a better job, if you want to sell someone on a project you're working on, if you want to sell a book...it will happen. If you want it enough it can be yours.
The intensity of the desire has a lot to do with achieving your goal. I wanted a certain car one time and I attached a photo of that car to my refrigerator, my bathroom mirror and to the dash of the car I was driving. I really wanted that car. The photos motivated me to work a little harder, make a little more, and three months later I bought the car. I remember having a laser focus. I had to have that automobile.
I believe that energy attracts, or repels. The positive side of this is that if you put out enough magnetic energy, you will attract almost anything you want. But each person has to experiment with their own energy. I know people who can never make the commitment, no matter how much they think they want something. People who will never be able to give off the energy to make things happen. And then there are those people who actually are named for the energy they give off. "That guy is a chick magnet." "She's a money magnet." It's not by luck that they came by those names.
I challenge you to focus your energy. Become a magnet for something that's important in your life. See if it works for you. I have started businesses, sold books, bought property, surrounded myself with energetic, positive friends and business acquaintances, all by focusing on what was important to me.
I'm not a self help guru. I just think that we all need to concentrate a little more on getting the most out of life.

